The Most Wanted Single Gal

i just don't get it.

some of my single girlfriends who are still in their 20s... just went yakiti yak yak about being a jomblo. they are so desperate! they worry, they got pressured, they are too focused on having a boyfriend stuff that they forget to enjoy life. C'MON GIRLS! YOU CAN DO MORE THAN BEING A DESPERATE JOMBLO! GUA YANG UDAH 30 AJA MASIH ENJOY ENJOY AJA. isn't it supposed to be ME, who should worry and be upset?

not that i don't think about that stuff. i'd be a hypocrite if i said i didn't. i do. oftentimes!!! i remember there was a time when i got so worried and depressed, pitying myself and i cried and cried and cried (ck ck ck.. kasiaaan dehhh) but then i bounced back. i don't wanna let this thing to prevent me from having a fulfilling life. life is only one time to live, and we have to make the most of it.

do something you like, it will definitely turn the negative energy into something positive.
life in not just about growing up, getting married, and having kids, then die in peace. it's so much more than that! life is about finding your purpose in this world (why you were born into this planet), doing it, and giving an impact. WHOAH... big words huh?

like it or not, it's true. me, for example... i thought i would be happy when i got a boyfriend. i was wrong. a boyfriend didn't make me happy, broken my heart.. yes. i kept searching til i found the answer: KNOW WHAT MAKE YOU HAPPY OR HAVE PASSION FOR, DO IT, AND YOU'LL HAVE AN ENJOYABLE LIFE.

if cooking makes you glad, do it. if painting brightens up your face, do it. if writing your soul passion, do it. if being a teacher makes you valuable, do it. if art and design excite you, learn it, do it. i can go on and on about the list. but CAUTION: if excessive eating or drugs or anything negative make you happy, DO NOT DO IT. get a life!

my dear jomblo friends, we all CAN BE HAPPY NOW. at this point of life. do not have to wait til we have a boyfriend. we can have a satisfying life NOW =) it's fine to think of a guy sometimes, just don't let that control your life. throw away desperate songs, books, movies... read, watch, see, and do things that will build us up ^_^

i'm saying all these because i am in the process of learning too. so c'mon, let's together make ourselves innerly and outerly beautiful and attractive by being a SASSY SINGLE! when you love yourself, enjoy your life to the most, ... you'll shine! and at that time, all those guys will be waiting in line for you, THE MOST WANTED SINGLE GIRL IN THE BLOCK *wink*